Everyone Needs Gratitude

A man punished his 3-year-old daughter for wasting a roll of gold wrapping paper. Money was tight and he became infuriated when the child tried to decorate a box.

Nevertheless， the little girl brought the gift to her father on Christmas morning and said， “This is for you， Daddy.” He was embarrassed by his earlier overreaction， but his anger flared again when he found the box was empty.

He yelled at her， “Don’t you know when you give someone a present， there’s supposed to be something inside it？”

The little girl looked up at him with tears in her eyes and said， “Oh， Daddy， it’s not empty， I blew kisses into the box. All for you， Daddy.”

The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little girl， and he begged for her forgiveness.

It was not long before the girl was killed in a terrible accident. It is told that the man kept that gold box by his bed for years and whenever he was discouraged， he would take out an imaginary kiss and remember the love of the child who had put it there.

In fact， when you express gratitude， you show your love and appreciation. Everyone needs to feel these things every day. Look at everyone with grateful eyes. Listen to your heart and the heart of your loved ones. Speak words of affirmation every day of your life. Be grateful for your life with all its lessons and blessings. The more grateful thoughts and feelings you experience and express the more instrumental you will be in healing the world. And your outlook on life will improve in the process.

一位父親懲罰了自己三歲的小女兒，因為她把一整卷精美而昂貴的包裝紙剪壞了。當看到女兒用這卷包裝紙包盒子時，想到家里低微的收入，這位父親越發(fā)生氣了。

不管怎樣，在圣誕節(jié)那天早晨，女兒還是把她精心用金色包裝紙包好的禮物送給了爸爸：“爸爸，這是給你的禮物。”很顯然，此刻爸爸因為之前的過激行為而十分尷尬，當他打開禮物時，卻發(fā)現(xiàn)里面空空如也。

他非常生氣，朝女兒吼道：“難道你不知道，送別人禮物時應該在盒子里放上東西嗎？”

小姑娘很委屈，含著眼淚對爸爸說：“不，爸爸，這個盒子不是空的。我把它包好之前，在里面裝了滿滿的吻。都是給你的，爸爸。”

爸爸呆住了，他緊緊地把小女兒抱在懷里，請求她的原諒。

之后不久，一次可怕的事故奪去了小女孩的生命，而這位父親一生都把這只金色的盒子擺在床頭。每當面對非常刺手的問題或是缺乏勇氣的時候，他就會打開這只盒子，想象著接受女兒的一個吻，回想著孩子放在里面的愛。

其實，當你表示感動的時候，就展現(xiàn)出了你的愛心和感激。每個人每天都需要這些感受。看下那些感動的眼神，聆聽你的內(nèi)心和你所愛的人的內(nèi)心，每天說些肯定的話，傾聽令你感動的教訓和祝福。你擁有的感動的思想和感情越多，你對社會的作用就越大，你對生命的見解也會更深。