Confidence

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生命中的每一天都是新的，我們有許多事情要在今天做。清晨的陽光激勵我們卸下包袱，輕裝上路，一切重新開始。但只有少數(shù)人能利用這股清新的力量，這對各個行業(yè)的人的行為方式和自信程度都有一定影響。自信是你立足于世界的關(guān)鍵，也是取勝于各行各業(yè)的關(guān)鍵。真誠努力的自信可以使人達到登峰造極的境界，然而我們卻經(jīng)常看到很多人缺少基本的自信因素。因為沒有自信，我們的表現(xiàn)不能真實地展現(xiàn)自己的能力。不管是在公眾面前講話，對愛人表白，還是考大學(xué)，或口試、面試，甚至在考試之前都如此。這些都可能是因為害怕被拒絕。

若洞察了自己的心靈和思維，就會發(fā)現(xiàn)內(nèi)心的恐懼會讓我們一事無成，而滿懷自信則會戰(zhàn)無不勝。這是因為自信能使我們更淋漓盡致地表達自己的思想，所以我們沒必要總擔(dān)心會得不到別人的接受與肯定。與其生活在無盡的恐懼和粗略的分析中，不如滿懷自信，憑借我們的技能盡力打造自己。擁有自信，我們就能將自己真實的一面精彩地展示出來，同時有效地彌補缺憾。

我們的自信應(yīng)該隨著個性的張揚程度適時而止，過度的自信是有害的。

當(dāng)“自負”的種子植根于心間，過分自信就總是令人不滿。而后我們會展開想象的翅膀，甚至用說大話來保持自我形象。所以切勿讓“自負”的種子植根于你的頭腦，只有當(dāng)你希望實現(xiàn)自己的期望值時，才可以植入。

自信就要冷靜、沉著而鎮(zhèn)定。

你心里擁有這些因素嗎？如果你覺得沒有，就該給自己鼓勁，因為只有心靈才是你的良師益友。你才是自己最大的救星。

Every day is a new day in our life. There is much to do today.The early morning sun inspires us to start things freshly and put back our past.Only a handful of us make use of this fresh bunch of energy.In various walks of life this affects the way we behave and our confidence level.Confidence is a key to survive in this world.It is the only key tool to win the rat race in every walk of life.Confidence in ones own capabilities combined with sincere efforts helps one to achieve unthinkable heights.But many times we see that this basic element of confidence is missing in us.As a result of lack of confidence we perform well below our caliber.Be it in a public speech， proposing your beloved， visas for your college or in an interview or say even on the eve before your exams.This can be due to fear of being rejected or any other reason.

If we look into our hearts and think， we will come to know that fear inside us is going to get us nowhere. The confidence inside us is going to take us places.This is because with confidence we can put our thoughts into words in a better and pleasing way.So we have to get out of that shell where we think whether people will accept us as we are.Instead of living in these unending moments of fear and thoughtless analysis， it is better if we project ourselves with the skills we have with the gloss of confidence.With confidence we can portray the finer points of our personality in such a way that the places where we do lack are never highlighted.

Confidence should glow in us only till the point where our personality is boosted. Above this it leads to over-confidence that is harmful.

Over-confidence results in unsatisfied performance levels as the seed of ego grows into a plant into our mind. We then imagine and make big talks just to maintain our ego.So guys don't let the seed of ego to germinate in your mind， as this seed should be used only for you to live up to your expectations.

Confidence is all about being cool， calm and composed.

So guys do you have it in you？If you think you don't， boost up yourselves as your mind is your greatest mentor. You are your greatest helper.